The Narrative Approach

The Narrative Approach

The Narrative Approach when using the Enneagram is next-level learning. I woke up this morning delighted that I was going to sit on an international Narrative panel facilitated by an Enneagram student in Croatia.  At Transform, we’ve been on a path of personal growth...
Personal Mastery

Personal Mastery

The desire to achieve mastery of life, love, and work is hard-wired into us. This innate need to accomplish, to conquer our internal struggles, to cure self-doubt, to come to speaking terms with our emotions, to have a great relationship with ourselves and others, and...
Accepting Support

Accepting Support

Last Sunday morning I woke up and donated to Feeding Texas, a relief effort for the cold weather emergencies in Texas. Yikes, what an awful and messed-up situation those folks have been going through on top of an already stressful time. On a basic human level, I...
Awkward Silence

Awkward Silence

Theresa and I were wondering what we should post this week. We were both pondering the possibilities when there was a definite pause in our conversation. In typical Enneagram 6 fashion, I thought, “Oh no, we don’t have anything,” but then she had a thought...
The Tipping Point

The Tipping Point

A few days ago, I found myself saying to myself – and to all those involved – that I was “DONE” with someone. I was keenly aware that a certain interaction was my tipping point. I had over-managed my internal reactions for too long by keeping my attention on working...